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Oct30 Day Blog Challenge- Day 3
Day 3- First Love
My first love was a boy that I met in my freshman year of high school. He was a junior and a drummer in the band. He had spacers in his ears and sagging pants. Obviously not who my parents would have picked for me.
We dated for 1.5 years and when it ended I was extremely sad. I pushed him away and unwillingly he gave me space. That space caused him to get close to another girl and they began to date…which literally tore my heart apart.
To make myself feel better I would always say, “If it was meant to be, it would be”. I still thought about him through my junior and senior year and lo and behold, my senior year he called and we went on a date. It was interesting. We cliqued again, but really only when we talked about the past. We had both changed so much that it was more about reminiscing than talking about any future. I realized that that was the closure I needed and was sooo happy that I got it.
Years later I found out that he married the girl he dated when we broke up. I was so happy for them. For them it really was meant to be.
-J
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